LOVE INSANITY or DISORDER

 
Love is a strong emotion that draws us onto an object of desire.Some say its a willing to feel and drawn towards something.We tend to be really connected and attracted to the object in question.Everybody feels it and everybody wonders how to tell if it is real. Here is a very common question, "How can I tell I'm in love?", but it is not an easy question to answer. LOVE. Are you really in love?

1. Ask yourself: 'Would I be willing to let her/him go if I believed it was the best thing?'
2. Ask yourself: 'Am I willing to wait for this person if s/he is not ready to have sex?'
3. Ask yourself: 'Would I feel the same way if s/he gained weight?'
4. Ask yourself: 'Am I willing to sacrifice my dreams to allow her/his dreams to come true?'
5. Ask yourself: 'Do I respect and admire her/him?'
6. Ask yourself: 'Would I feel the same way if s/he got sick?'
7. Ask yourself: 'If you two were in an argument, would you feel the same way?'
8. If you answered 'No' to any of these questions, think about why you gave that answer. Is it a lack of trust? Is it because you're afraid? Is it selfishness? Do you need more time to get to know each other?
9. If you answered 'Yes' to all of these questions, wow, you feel very strongly about this person. It sounds like you're in love!

Now you have strong feelings of attraction to this person or object,lets take a look at what many of us do wrong to ended up with egg face breakup and what we can do to avoid or be better......

1. Many a times we tend to get so inclined emotionally,physically and psychologically towards what we love tend to "stop" living.We get ourselves entangled in emotions we start loosing our core self and character .
Couples in love tend to segregate and isolate themselves from their worlds and zone in to what they find worthwhile and fun.Many will shut friends and family away ignoring all the warning sighs, having a belief anyway, its not perfect he/she will eventually come around.

2.During these times we start making sound decisions with our hearts but rather with our mind.Most start being delusional hoping for the best ,taking in rubbish ,praying their partners in crime will one day change to be everything they want them to be.

3.Ignoring the brakes for conclusive analysis ,many will be heard saying "what we share is just so organic,so spontaneous, i think am in love with right person" without really taking time to evaluate the additions,subtractions the relationship is inputing in their lives.One will find couples meeting withing a short period of time,they start taking babies and how this is their soul mate.Its shocking because it goes even low to teenagers and young adults who are really vulnerable wih their emotions.

4. "Love concurs all" is a quote many will quickly use to help them deal with issues of the heart,rather than using the constructive avenues of getting viable solutions they start making unwarranted concentions that deeply they know will hurt them anyways.Many couples are made to feel they need the other to exits.Alife without the otherv is total oblivion.

5. Being delusional and controlled;this is where abuse(emotionally,physically,physiologically) start and it escalates gradually and before it dawns on one ,its too hard to let, go we crush our minds into accepting the norm.


LOVE IS A BEAUTIFUL THING IF ITS DONE WITH RIGHT PERSON BUT CAN BE VERY UGLY WITH THE WRONG PERSON.a double edged sword it is...

What should we do ,to make it right?..coming...