Valentine post drama

The month of February comes with the eccentricity of love and relationship dos and donts. Many expected to declare their undying love for love ones.so it came and went but all was left was torrid stories of being blown away to utter disappointments. lets share some of the torrent stories..

Anonymous.
On valentines i bought my boyfriend gifts including a shirt worth 17 dollars,chocolates, his favorable CD and expensive wine only for him to tell me he forgot it was valentines ,his reasoning being he had a very long tiring day at work mac you he also canceled our dinner date.He later confessed to being broke and that he will make it up-to me on a special day. I was floored beyond words and i have no idea what to do with him.advice?

ANSWER;

Knowing your spouse or partner is very essential in celebrating these romantic or special events lovers share as this will eventually capitulate in the way both of spend the day.Did you do research or did an unconscious question of his /her like are.this can be done by  telling a story of another couple in similar situations -through this you can gauge his/her reactions thus giving a needed clue of his or her likes.

Secondly we have to be accommodating of our lovers responsibilities and be understanding.Well this translate to the fact that each human being gives different scenarios different seriousness.Some people dont like valentines its common they would say but some its such a day that usherly tunes up romance .So being your boyfriend was tired from along day can be a genuine concern but him forgetting it at all is shocking to say the least.Sit him down and have a candid talk of your issues openly this will both relieve the tension and ultimately bring you closer to one another.communication is key to successful relationships.

John;
My girlfriend is over demanding ,she wanted everything from flowers,dinner date nice clothes i mean she was totally oblivious of the fact that all these costs money.She also refused to give it up as she had promised all along now one year passed.Men advice i love her apart of me wants to move on.

ANSWER;
Your girlfriend is many girls who needs to be loved,she just needs your attention which i reckon you weren't giving that is why she needs to see your commitment through gifts and all that.The good thing is she will come around being all her problem is you.Fix your responsibilities in the relationship and tell her you cannot afford all those stuff but you can be the lover her heart currently craves.Be a romantic and treat her right.

For the sex part,there are some many dynamics to it all e.g is she a virgin,whats her thoughts in sex,is she waiting for marriage-did you two sit down and agreed? .Do what is consensus between you two and bring her around in a romantic way you may get lucky after all.good luck.

James;
I recently kissed a girl and since then i have developed some pimple like stuff on all my body ,am i infected with an STI?

ANSWER;
Am no doctor but what i know its not an STI for they are sexually transmitted .It may just be an allergic reaction from what you ate or she ate.Go see a doctor.Get well soon.